Are you single or in a relationship?

Do you want to attract a lover into your life or raise the vibration of your current relationship to a higher frequency?

You have the power within you to make this happen!

I use principles of the Law of Attraction within my book, You Find Your Soul Mate When You Let Go of Searching, to help understand the space you need to be in to attract the love you desire into your life.

How does the law of attraction work and how can you use it to attract love into your life?  It is important to be aware of your thoughts and the emotions you hold as a result of those thoughts.  Your thoughts are very powerful because they are an influence on the beliefs that you agree to take into your system.  These beliefs then influence your behaviors and can create emotions that may not be benefitting you in receiving the love and relationship that you desire.

The first thing I help my clients to recognize and be aware of is their thoughts because they hold the keys to transforming their beliefs and emotions.  I can recall one person recently asking me, “Why do I always get the bad apples?”  Take a look at this statement.  Can you see the beliefs and emotions within it that this person is holding onto?  She feels that she always receives partners who are not trustworthy and not the type of person she feels she wants to be with.  By believing that she always attracts these types of people, she is placing the exact energy that she doesn’t desire into the universe and therefore attracting the type of partners she doesn’t desire to be with.

If you believe that an experience you have always had you will always have, then you are creating this exact story to be true for you.  As a result, you will always have the experience you have always had, and this will not change unless you change the belief and emotions that are creating this type of pattern.

The Law of Attraction works by attracting back to you what is vibrating in a similar frequency as you.  If you believe that your happiness comes from within you, and you allow yourself to feel happy in each moment, then you will attract other people to you that are feeling the same way, creating their own happiness.  You then have an opportunity to be in a relationship with someone like this, to continue to create your own happiness but also create happiness together.

This is a truth:  Your happiness comes from within you.  Another person cannot make you happy, but they can increase your happiness, though even that is your choice and comes from within you.  Therefore, if your happiness comes from within you, why would you want to ever believe that you need to be with someone to be happy?  This is one of the beliefs that attracts the relationship partners and experiences to you that you do not want, for those people will be feeling a similar way.  In this space, how can happiness ever be created?

I would recommend that you become clear with yourself what it is within a partner that you want to attract, but before that, become aware of the emotions, beliefs, and desires that you hold, which ones you want to keep and which ones to release.  You need to know you in order to know what you truly desire to have within your life.

If you are in a relationship with another and you want to know how to raise your frequency within your experience, I suggest that you become clear with yourself what you desire in your life, who you are, and therefore what you are desiring within a relationship and partner.  Even though you are in a relationship, you are changing and growing as well as your partner.  If you take inventory of who you are and what you desire throughout your relationship, you can always reconnect with your partner, or sometimes, realize that you are drifting in opposite directions.  This can occur and this is not a bad thing.  Relationships change and transition so that others of like vibration can then be manifested.  It is also very important to be in space of gratitude.

The media can tend to focus on negative images and ideas, therefore instilling within us, if we choose to allow it, those same ways of perceiving our experiences.  What are the traits within your partner that you appreciate?  What have you shared that you are grateful for?  You may find that this is all that is needed to release the ego and negative emotions from destroying a relationship that is exactly what you desire.  We do have challenges within relationships to help us to grow, and rather than automatically viewing those challenges as negative, take a thorough review to determine if that is really the case.

Gabriella Hartwell

Gabriella Hartwell is an Intuitive Relationship Life Coach and has been helping people with their relationships for many years now. People are naturally drawn to her compassionate, understanding and calm demeanor. She believes in the power of love and its capacity to allow the heart to heal so that it can embrace the love within and draw the love from others as well.

She is dedicated to helping you embrace the intense love that is waiting just over the horizon. In order to do so, it is important to realize that you deserve a life of happiness and to let go of the fear that stops you from walking into your destiny.

To find out more about her book, You Find Your Soul Mate When You Let Go of Searching, or to join her free newsletter, listen to her radio shows, read her blog, get updated on her upcoming events, interviews and retreats, please visit her website at http://www.emergingsoul.com.<-->

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